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In these videos, Bashar discusses being a victim and the relationship between the victim and perpetuator. He urges us to do not think like a victim.

He explains that we cannot be affected without our agreement. We can be standing right next to someone who is experiencing very negative ideas and great tragedies, yet we can be completely unaffected. It depends on our vibration. It’s important to understand that there are no victims here. Thinking like a victim only perpetuates victimization energy.

We are all powerful spiritual beings making choices as to what we believe is true for ourselves.

We are offering each other the opportunities to see by example that the different kinds of choices we could make, that may be more in alignment with who we truly are. And we’re also being offered examples that are in antithesis to who we truly are. It’s up to us to decide what we wish to believe is true.

And what we believe is true is what we will experience.

He explains that even if you we experiencing others going through certain things, that doesn’t mean we have to label them in a negative way. We don’t have to take upon our own life, the idea of a negative consequence. Use others in a positive way see how they can be an example of something to help people make changes in positive ways. And if we use them in that way, we will get the effect from that choice.

Ultimately what we can do is just be ourselves. We could take actions that are representative of the self we prefer to be. Be an example to others. Share with them ideas of the self we prefer to be. If they choose to match your frequency, they choose to match your frequency, if they don’t they don’t.

What we can do, is live our lives in an exciting positive way. And be an example of some other positive way we could look at things.
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In the second video below, Bashar explains that it’s not about blame. and it’s not about fault. And it’s not about excusing a perpetrator.

He states that it’s the perpetrator’s duty to get in touch with their own self-empowerment and not be attracted by someone who may be playing a victim role. Both the perpetrator and what we call the victim, are victims, because it takes a victim to make a victim.

He explains that a chain has been created where abuse creates abusive people. And it’s about breaking the chain, and having the compassion to understand; not excusing a perpetrator but to understand that they are in a great deal of pain. That’s why they’re lashing out at other people; why they’re attempting to dominate and control.

The key to breaking the chain is having compassion, and removing ourselves from victimization and by claiming our own responsibility for our own reality. We should recognize that there are positive ways to transform that experience for ourselves, and maybe even transform it in a way that we could reach out to those that perpetrated it, and help them transform too, thus breaking the chain.